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Friday, July 10, 2009

FALLING IN LOVE

When you think of your PAST LOVE you may view it as a FAILURE but when you find a NEW LOVE you view the past as a TEACHER. In the game of love it doesn't really matter WHO WON or WHO LOST, what is important is that you know when to HOLD ON and when to LET GO. You know you really love someone when you want him or her to be happy even if their HAPPINESS means you're NOT PART of it. Everything happens for the BEST if the person you love doesn't love you back, don't be afraid to love someone else again for you'll never know unless you GIVE IT A TRY. You will never love a person you love unless, YOU RISK FOR LOVE.
Love strives in HURTING, if you don't get hurt you don't learn how to love and love doesn't hurt all the time although the hurting is still there to TEST you to help you GROW. Don't find love let love find you that is why it's called falling in love because you don't force yourself to fall, YOU JUST FALL. You cannot finish a book without closing each chapter, if you want to go on then you have to LEAVE THE PAST as you turned the pages. Love is not DESTROYED BY A SINGLE FAILURE or WON BY A SINGLE CARESS. It is a LIFETIME VENTURE in which we are always LERNING, DISCOVERING and GROWING.
The greatest IRONY OF LOVE is
LETTING GO when you need to hold on and HOLDING ON when you need to let go. We lose someone we love when we are
DESTINED to find someone else, who can love as even more than we can love ourselves. On falling out of love takes some time to HEAL and then get back on a horse but don't ever make the SAME MISTAKE of riding the same one that threw you the first time.
TO LOVE
is to RISK REJECTIONS, TO LIVE is to RISK DYING, TO HOPE is
to RISK FAILURE, but risk must be taken because the GREATEST HAZARD in life is RISK NOTHING. To reach for another is to RISK INVOLVEMENT, to expose your feelings is to EXPOSE YOUR TRUE SELF. To love is to risk NOT TO BE LOVED IN RETURN.
How do define love? FALL BUT NOT STUMBLE, be CONSTANT but not TOO PERSISTENT , SHARE and never be UNFAIR, UNDERSTAND and try NOT TO DEMAND, HURT but NEVER KEEP THE PAIN.
Love is like a KNIFE it can STAB THE HEART or it can
CURVE WONDERFUL IMAGES in to the SOUL that always LAST FOR A LIFETIME. Love is suppose to be the most WONDEFUL FEELING, it should INSPIRE YOU and GIVE you JOY and STRENGTH but sometimes the things that give you joy can
also HURT YOU IN THE END.
Loving people means giving them the FREEDOM WHO they CHOOSE TO BE
and WHERE THEY CHOOSE TO BE, for all the HEARTACHES and the TEARS, for GLOOMY DAYS and FRUITLESS YEARS you should give THANKS for you know that this were the things that HELPED YOU GROW. Loving someone means giving him the freedom to find his way whether it LEADS TOWARDS YOU or AWAY from you. Love is a PAINFUL RISK to take but the risk must be taken no matter how SCARY or PAINFUL for only then, you will experience the FULLNESS OF HUMANITY and that is LOVE.
Only love can HURT YOUR HEART, FEEL YOU WITH DESIRE and TEAR YOU APART. Only love can MAKE YOU CRY and only love KNOWS WHY. If you're NOT READY TO CRY, if you're NOT READY to TAKE THE RISK, if you're NOT READY to FEEL THE PAIN then you are NOT READY TO FALL IN LOVE.
There was the TIME IN OUR LIVES
when we became AFRAID to fall in love coz every time we do GETt HURT then; I figured that is why it's
called FALLING IN LOVE. When you DECIDE TO LOVE ALLOW IT TO GROW, when you PROMISE TO LOVE REFUSE TO LET IT DIE.